The fear of loneliness

People keep warning you from staying alone till you wake up in your fifties or maybe sixties with nobody around. Just you and your wrinkles; your beauty was gone if you've had any and you have to face yourself every day in the mirror and keep remembering memories. Actually not people only who do so, there is a list of movies in which the gorgeous actor or actress change 180 degrees and ends with a local boy or girlfriend from old town or high school in a wedding or a school reunion day and they live happily ever after and we all see the end with wonderful kiss and deep deep inside us we feel relief since the hero won’t stay alone in his fifties. 

Here I am raising the question what is the hell is that obsession with the fear of loneliness? And till when people will keep saying excuse me for saying it this shit?Well let me say it in other words, what about waking up in your fifties still with your wrinkles to see lying next to you a bald man snoring, don’t freak out it's your lovely husband who whenever feels that you are awake he says some tea and a sandwich without please or good morning. He’s your husband, yes, but you have nothing to share with him. You are married and you are not alone ,I totally agree, but there is nothing in common between you. You have just married him specially for this reason and for that day. While you're staring at that hansom guy you hear the door knocking, ohhhhh!!!!!That's your lovely grandchild holding his toys, forgot to tell you he spends every morning at your place making terrible noise till her mother comes back from work. On your way to the kitchen to start your wonderful journey there, you hear the door closing it's your son off to work without saying a word actually you barely talk, he doesn't like neither you nor his father and he wishes you die as soon as possible to get marry in the apartment and buy a car. I guess it is a busy, wonderful and warm life comparing to staying alone peacefully reading a book or listening to Vivaldi .It is your choice and nobody can force you to do anything and life is full of options so my advice, no who am I to give advices, I just have a thought and want to share it ,because I fed up with the fear of loneliness issue and with seeing girls rushing to getting married to the first one knocking on their doors because of that fear and because of the obsession with the perfect image of happy family seen in movies. I just think that it is o. k. to stay alone till you find the right one and maybe you won't find him which is also o.k. Get a life, dream big dreams, make adventures have hundreds of friends and never stop living and believe that you already have a life and don't wait for someone else to start it. Ah, I forgot you are a complete person so please stop saying I am looking for my other part who will complete me.