Have you seen Mcdreamy?

Have you? Please don't ask who is Mcdreamy? Probably you did ask, I don't believe it but I'll tell you, since I am addicted to "Grey's Anatomy series" Mcdreamy is Meredith nickname for dr.Derek Shepherd role played by Patrick Dempsey. Definitely I am not willing to talk to you about the series and I don't mean by my question have you seen that kind of handsome guys with great hair and wonderful eyes, no, I don't mean that by my question, I live on earth. What I mean is have you seen that kind of  guys who hold your hand when you feel down and who cheer up when you’re successful and who are patient and good listeners? Have you seen any of them? Is life that unfair to only let us watch them in the movies and series and then stuck with jerks? Is life that unfair to push you to make compromises till you get nothing at the end?

I know you will say gentle guys are out there but you were not lucky to meet one of them, well maybe but are they that rare that we don't even hear about one of them anywhere around. It's a little weird don't you think? I don't want to meet one of them I just want to know if they do exist in first place. I am surrounded by awful examples of men ruining their families, disrespecting women, not willing to make a tiny effort to reassure them and let them feel that they are there. Woman is a very weak and powerful creature, miracles are made by her in the moment she feels secured and appreciated, but unfortunately nowadays woman is so oppressed and abused, she is pushed to be competitive more than she can bear, everyday she has to prove that she is strong and that she can take more iniquity at work and home. And why do you think is that everyday competition taking place? It’s because she didn't find  Mcdreamy in her life, the one who gives her the needed support, the one who appreciates her effort without using her, the one who want to share opinions with her, the one who knows that she is a woman and has her own needs. And don't get me wrong, Mcdreamy hasn't to be her fiancé or husband, he can be her father, brother, friend or boss at work, a little of his existence will help her much.

For the first time I don't have a conclusion or inspiring solutions it is just a kind of fate and destiny that we girls have to face it since we are living these days. I just have a wish, if you have seen Mcdreamy or know someone who had please tell me, that will really help me and the others to simply know that he exists.