Love stupidity

Have you ever noticed that when people think that they are in love they automatically turn to stupid people? Actually I did, so let me tell you about what I have noticed and you focus on your friend or colleague's habits change after telling you he found his soul mate. First of all he or she checks her / his mobile phone for about ten to twenty times in an hour which is so normal to prevent the hazard of missing a call. Second of all you hear the message tone for about fifty to hundred times a day which is also so normal since people in love have to share every tiny detail in life such as I am off to work, I am at work, I miss you, I am having lunch, I am going to the supermarket, I miss you so much, I am back from the supermarket, and important received messages saying miss you too, take care, tell me when you reach home, work, supermarket...etc. As you see how important details are shared, you spent all your life going to work and to the supermarket, crossing the streets all alone ignoring the terrible risk of such activities, till you find your soul mate who truly care -and is not faking that care for sure- to know about everything you do. Wow!! How amazing is that.

After these wonderful sharing steps, you realize that your friend or colleague do not have breaks at work anymore with you because he or she wants to share every single free moment with the soul mate and it is the same for going out and having fun concept, and my favorite part is feeling guilty because you're having fun away from your future partner. Wow again, isn't that amazing?

You see them doing stupid, humiliating things and your role is to draw a smile on your face saying  I am so happy for you, you are so lucky. And when I say humiliating and stupid, I do mean it. Just as finding a man in public place saying with a loud voice I love you, he is not trying to impress the girl or anything- since girls are known for loving these stupid things from movies- no he just felt it and couldn't hold it anymore in his chest, yes yes that's love. Or when you find a girl wearing a bracelet with her fiancé’s name on, or a necklace with a picture, of course it is not too much, it is so normal. Or when you find the girl  who used to be wise crying because of doing a terrible thing, I do not know if you can bear it but I'll say it, she was tired and slept yesterday without wishing the prince a good night she had just fell asleep. Isn't that the most cruel and unforgivable thing you have ever heard

I think it is my blood pressure pill time because I don’t feel well after sharing these memories, but I'll try to continue. What I feel about these bullshit and sorry to say it but I have no other description for it, is that what they do is so far from love, I guess it is called faking, you didn't find the right one so you fake things to feel that he is and you say to yourself fake feeling is better than no feeling and having someone in your life is better than having no one, so you start to imitate and fake things convincing yourself that it's real.

I've been through that so I know what I am talking about. I do believe true love is never stupid, you don't have to send hundreds of messages a day to imitate your care, you just feel worry when you just feel it, not about someone crossing the street or going to the supermarket. You don't have to do stupid things to impress the one you love, a word from the heart will convey your message. You don't have to stop talking to your friends because you are in love; you do so when you're afraid of them telling you you're not.

So my advice is: stop acting and if you don't feel it don’t say it, and know that having a fake feeling is never better than having no feeling, it has to be a real one, never stop talking to people you love and trust for people you have just met and who tells you me or them. And finally please don't send these kinds of stupid sms, and don't say I miss you or love you at the end of the message unless you feel it, do you know that after repeating words without sense you lose the sight of the meaning. And remember you can close your eyes to things you don’t want to see but you can’t close your heart to things you don’t want to feel, so faking might work for a while but won’t work for the whole time.